Why It's Hard to Receive Care – And How to Change That
There’s a heavy grief that sits at the bottom of many hearts.
Buried deep beneath hands that can’t quite reach for care because they’re not quite sure they deserve it.
Or if they’ll even receive it.
Or worse. They’ll be rejected or wronged.
Because history has told them time and time again the same story.
That care isn’t available.
I know this story too.
It’s the one I learnt.
So I followed it.
And built up walls of protection.
Of masking.
Of independence.
Of avoidance.
With my muscles trained to brace and protect every internal organ. And my most inner self from being hurt.
This story is also the one that made me sick.
Do you know this story too?
This story isn’t just yours. It’s a cultural one. An intergenerational one.
Yet it’s one that can shift.
When we transform our relationship with care. And gather the skills we missed out on. And build the evidence of care being possible.
Something else becomes possible.
The bracing and protection gets to ease.
Resentment dissolves into connection.
Rest becomes easeful.
Freeze thaws into flow.
Life no longer burns you out but lights you up with possibility and awe.
Your body is no longer the enemy turning against you — but a trusted companion guiding your way.
Then when things get too much again (because they will) or symptoms flare, you have the tools to meet yourself with care with more fluency. So challenges become easier to face too.
That’s what CareWeaver is. A place to go back to the beginning and learn what real care actually feels like. To practice the skills together. Because we learnt the pain of not receiving care in relationship. So we learn the possibility of receiving care with others too.
That's what CareWeaver is. A place to go back to the beginning and learn what real care actually feels like. To practice the skills together. Because we learnt the pain of not receiving care in relationship. So we learn the possibility of receiving care with others too.
The CareWeaver 3 month program is returning in 2027. If this sparked something for you – the waitlist is open. Waitlist members hear first and get early bird bonuses.
